Blaire Flamand

Thank all of you, so much, for your input. It means the world to me how thoughtful you have all been in trying to contribute positively to this situation.

You all are echoing something I knew from the start: it's all about how she's framed. It was my goal from the start to figure out what angle I can take...how to change how the healthcare system is seeing her. Perspective rules everything, doesn't it? And as an advocate, and a nurse, my goal is always collaboration first...I don't want to go into this meeting opposing things. That won't get my client what she needs.

You all have given me several excellent pieces of information and things to be thinking about. Though I have so much experience, I will constantly be learning and leaning into this amazing community.

Depending on how this meeting goes tomorrow, I may call on those of you who have offered to assist. As a type A personality with a fiery passion for this, I absolutely need to make sure I've done everything I could. My conscious won't allow anything less.

AnnMarie — please do share via the private facebook. All thoughtful comments/advice is welcome.

Again, thank you.

Hi Blaire,

I spoke in depth with the girl's aunt when they were searching for an advocate. I am so sad you are still running into denials. So many wrong steps have been taken when this family is willing to do anything for her. What is wrong with people!?!?

I spoke with some contacts who were willing to help as best they could. I am happy to pass them on to you.

I am not nearly as capable as you with this case, but I am here to lend a familiar ear. I am also available if the family needs anything I can help with for caregiver support.

Thank you for sharing this case and for using PA360º as a thoughtful sounding board. Your approach reflects both humility and resourcefulness. Creating space for peers to weigh in not only opens the door to new perspective, but can be grounding and clarifying in complex situations like this. Even advocates benefit from the insight of other advocates. I appreciate your openness and commitment to getting this right, Blaire.

Even another connection we have, patient transport. The next time we make a trip to Lexington, I am definitely going to have to make a side trip to meet in person for advocacy discussions over a cup of coffee.