Special Care & Aging
Compassionate Advocates Who Assist The Elderly and Patients With Special Needs.
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Hello everyone, I am working on a complex San Francisco senior case and wanted to see if any of you know of California-specific elder support... See More
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Lisa Berry Blackstock
10 days ago
Hi Mari, To the best of my knowledge, a person in any state with assets exceeding the Medi-Cal threshold will not qualify for any type of public healthcare assistance. The LGBTQ community is well organized in the Bay Area, and may provide financial assistance on a private basis. I would check with their local organizations; keep in mind that any grants might also be dependent upon financial need. — Every LTC policy has an elimination period, and requires proof of payment by the insured as part of the policy’s authorization process. A limit of $650/day sounds as though the LTC policy doesn’t carry an annual inflation endorsement; this should be confirmed by reading the entire policy (and not the policy Summary of Benefits.) I would also verify the policy allows assets other than the insured’s to cover the elimination period. The elimination period of 90 days, at $650/day, equals $58,500, which can be covered by your client’s assets if he is required to pay. LTC policies all contain language regarding caregiving coverage by formal and informal caregivers. Understanding policy guidelines in this regard is crucial. — I didn’t see any mention of the cause of your client’s medical decline. If another party was involved (i.e. an accident, premature discharge, improper diagnosis) the opportunity may exist to explore the LTC policy elimination period coverage by the other responsible party. Good luck.
Rethinking Safety: An Ethical Shift in Aging Decisions
Summary When families begin making assisted living decisions or increased support for aging parents, the conversation usually centers on one... See More
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Donna Schmidt
28 days ago
In my years of hospice care, I can tell you that this is an important conversation to have with your parents before a crisis occurs.
Be proactive AND insistent in getting a plan in place. Call a family meeting or have an elder law attorney help.
Be proactive AND insistent in getting a plan in place. Call a family meeting or have an elder law attorney help.
AnnMarie Cross
1 month ago
This is SUCH an important conversation. Thank you so much for bringing it here.
Recommended strategies for addressing delays in care caused by chronic understaffing
Requesting advocates share their best strategies for addressing delays in care caused by chronic understaffing. We have all experienced... See More
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Renea Stasaski
1 month ago
David, this is exactly the systemic issue Cheryl is pointing to — and there's an underutilized resource worth knowing about.
The Older Americans Act established the National Long-Term Care Ombudsman Program, staffed by both paid and volunteer advocates. Critically, they work for residents, not facilities. They can address individual resident concerns and pursue systemic facility issues. Complaints feed into state and national trend databases that can drive regulatory action.
As a former Texas ombudsman, I can tell you SNFs were prioritized in caseloads over assisted living, even though both are covered under the OAA. The program is lean, but strategic.
As a first step I recommend looking for the ombudsman contact information typically posted at the facility entrance. Introducing yourself creates a ready partnership for exactly the issues you're describing.
Understaffing explains resource constraints. It doesn't excuse poor care.
Renea Stasaski, BCPA
Sonoran Wayfinders
Advocate's AI Atlas
The Older Americans Act established the National Long-Term Care Ombudsman Program, staffed by both paid and volunteer advocates. Critically, they work for residents, not facilities. They can address individual resident concerns and pursue systemic facility issues. Complaints feed into state and national trend databases that can drive regulatory action.
As a former Texas ombudsman, I can tell you SNFs were prioritized in caseloads over assisted living, even though both are covered under the OAA. The program is lean, but strategic.
As a first step I recommend looking for the ombudsman contact information typically posted at the facility entrance. Introducing yourself creates a ready partnership for exactly the issues you're describing.
Understaffing explains resource constraints. It doesn't excuse poor care.
Renea Stasaski, BCPA
Sonoran Wayfinders
Advocate's AI Atlas
AnnMarie Cross
1 month ago
Thank you for asking such an important, complex question!
Cheryl Kauffman
1 month ago
Oh gosh, this is such a major problem! And if I knew how to fix it, I would be a wealthy woman! I experience this both as a clinician and as an advocate. A few strategies that are absolutely not fixes:
1. bundle needs as much as possible so there are fewer calls on the call light. I know it's not always possible! If possible, build ADL routines so they're more anticipated/scheduled and more efficient.
2. let the staff know they're appreciated, with words and maybe snacks. Let managers know who is excellent.
3. escalate as needed if/when there are safety concerns
4. aim for non-profit care centers whenever possible
Well, that's a few thoughts to start the conversation.
Cheryl Kauffman, PT, BCPA
Seattle Patient Advocates
1. bundle needs as much as possible so there are fewer calls on the call light. I know it's not always possible! If possible, build ADL routines so they're more anticipated/scheduled and more efficient.
2. let the staff know they're appreciated, with words and maybe snacks. Let managers know who is excellent.
3. escalate as needed if/when there are safety concerns
4. aim for non-profit care centers whenever possible
Well, that's a few thoughts to start the conversation.
Cheryl Kauffman, PT, BCPA
Seattle Patient Advocates
End of Life document review
Does anyone offer a standalone service/package to discuss, review, draft POLST, values statement, educate about living will, etc? I have had... See More
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Maggie English
1 month ago
Thank you all for responding!
Teri Frykenberg
1 month ago
I do a 90 minute virtual review with clients or entire families for 400.00 that includes referrals and assessment of acute needs. If they want me to review documents and develop a medical profile and care plan with resources it is 1500. If they need in person advocacy services and the above, I charge 2500 for initial ten hrs of work then 250/hr for additional hrs. Most of my clients choose the third option as I tend to get very medically complex cases.
SHEENA MBACHU
1 month ago
I do this as a part of my services and I am happy to take on custom requests.
translating care in a digital world
Senior have a difficult time with EMR apps for the smart devices. Analog methods are vastly gone. Our seniors need people to help navigate the... See More
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AnnMarie Cross
2 months ago
Thanks for starting the thread, Andrew! We're very glad you're here.
Are there approaches you have taken to help your senior clients be able to interact with their smart devices at all? for example, to confirm appointments via text? What resources do your clients mostly find manageable — if there are any patterns you see? (would love you to edit the post and expand the thought a bit more, if you're game, in hopes of having others join in or learn from your experience!)
Are there approaches you have taken to help your senior clients be able to interact with their smart devices at all? for example, to confirm appointments via text? What resources do your clients mostly find manageable — if there are any patterns you see? (would love you to edit the post and expand the thought a bit more, if you're game, in hopes of having others join in or learn from your experience!)
Help Solo Agers Maintain Independence and Build Resilience
How I Help Solo Agers Maintain Independence and Build Resilience Independence is not a personality trait. It is a structure. When someone is aging... See More
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AnnMarie Cross
2 months ago
Thanks so much for sharing!
Medicare's New AI Gatekeeper
In 2026, the integration of artificial intelligence into Medicare operations involves a balance between administrative efficiency and beneficiary... See More
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AnnMarie Cross
3 months ago
This is SUCH a powerful topic. Thank you for bringing it forward here and for sharing your podcast. I look forward to listening to it in the near future.
Bridging the Gap in Oral Health Crisis for Seniors
Enjoy this blog post by author @shelbey arevalo: Oral health is a vital but often overlooked component of overall well-being—particularly for... See More
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Kimberlie Williams-Feth, BSW
4 months ago
I can attest that when my husband was in the sub-acute rehab for 60 days, not a single staff member ever said, «Here's your toothbrush and spit cup.» If I wasn't there that day, the teeth didn't get brushed.
That was last year, and he just went through an extraction. UGH!
Shelbey, I've sent several people to your GNA profile recently. Hopefully they turn into business for you.
That was last year, and he just went through an extraction. UGH!
Shelbey, I've sent several people to your GNA profile recently. Hopefully they turn into business for you.
Balancing Compassion and Medicine: From Hospice to Obesity Care
Click HERE to view this podcast episode! In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Sherika Newman, a hospice and palliative medicine physician and... See More
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Navigating Solo Aging and Inspiring Elder Orphans featuring Nancy Ruffner
In this thought-provoking episode of Patient Advocacy Now, we sit down with Nancy Ruffner, a trailblazer in patient advocacy and a passionate... See More
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